自苦

yǒu shí tā zhēn xiǎng mà zì jǐ wèi shén me zhè yàng zì kǔ

有时她真想骂自己，为什么这样自苦。

At times, she was tempted to curse herself for roughing it like this.

shàng dì bù yào tā de rén guò yú zì kǔ

上帝不要他的人过于自苦。

God does not call upon his people to abuse themselves.