非此即彼

zhè shì gè fù zá de wèn tí dàn tā què zhǐ yòng fēi cǐ jí bǐ de yǎn guāng lái kàn dài

这是个复杂的问题，但他却只用非此即彼的眼光来看待。

It's a complex issue, but he only sees it in black and white.

wǒ men yào me dǎ yào me bù dǎ fēi cǐ jí bǐ méi yǒu bié de chū lù

我们要么打，要么不打，非此即彼，没有别的出路。

We fight, or we don't, it's an either-or decision.