ReadWriteQuiz
Chinese dictionary
sltake strong measures only after courteous ones fail; be a gentleman first and a soldier second
我们要先礼后兵,如果劝降失败的话,就发动进攻。
Words before blows. We will launch the offensive if we fail to persuade them into surrender.
你要先礼后兵,先推行怀柔政策不得要领之后,就可以用这句话,让对方的狡辩无处藏身。
You would usually only use this phrase after politely requesting that someone repay a debt to you and they try to weasel out of it.