怄人

nǐ zhǐ yuàn rén xíng dòng chēn guài le nǐ nǐ zài bù zhī dào nǐ zì jǐ òu rén nán shòu

你只怨人行动嗔怪了你，你再不知道你自己怄人难受。

You blame other people for finding fault with you, without realizing how provoking you can be .