借花献佛

sòng gěi nǚ rén de dōng xi hěn shǎo shì zhēn zhèng zì jǐ de shuō chuān le dōu shì jiè huā xiàn fó

送给女人的东西，很少是真正自己的，说穿了都是借花献佛。

Gifts to women are rarely one's own and it's nothing more than borrowing flowers to offer to buddha.